Updated Monday, May 27th 2013 at 09:50 GMT +3
By Wachira Kigotho
Today fewer men in Kenya think it is right to beat their wives than it was a decade ago. Correspondingly, even less women are willing to gracefully accept their blows.
At the beginning of this Millennium, two thirds of Kenya men believed that wife battery
was justified, even for flimsy reasons. A wife would be beaten if the
food she was cooking slightly burned, or if the she answered her husband back.
years on, this has changed significantly with only 45 per cent of men
saying wife-beating is justified. With this development, it is now
safer to be a wife, a girlfriend, or even a mistress in Kenya,
especially when compared to Tanzania.
This year’s Kenya
Demographic Health Survey (KDHS) notes that in the three traditional
East African countries, the most violet place for a wife to live is
Tanzania where seven in 10 husbands
believe it is okay to beat their partners. According to a survey
published in the current issue of the American Sociological Review, 45
per cent of Ugandan men see nothing wrong with a wife being punished
now and then.
The study reviewed data from 26 countries. Fourteen
of these countries were in sub-Saharan Africa and included Benin,
Ethiopia, Ghana, Kenya, Madagascar, Malawi, Mali and Nigeria. Other
surveys were conducted in Rwanda, Senegal, Tanzania, Uganda, Zambia and
According to study leader Dr Rachael Pierotti of the
University of Michigan, the situation is much worse in Nigeria where
81 per cent of married women report being verbally or physically abused by their husbands. Forty-six per cent reported being abused in the presence of their children.
the situation has started to change with more men rejecting domestic
violence, especially in Nigeria where 65 per cent of men recently said
they were opposed to wife beating compared to 48 per cent in an earlier
study conducted in 2008.
Dr Pierotti says there are significant
changes in global attitudes towards domestic violence, particularly in
It is only in Madagascar that most men thought it was necessary to unleash domestic violence on women on a regular basis.
Women are in most instances assaulted by their husbands
or girls beaten by their boyfriends for very flimsy reasons such as if
the woman went out without informing her male partner or if children
were left unattended.
Dr Pierotti says women
in sub-Saharan Africa are frequently beaten by their partners if they
refuse to have sex with them, argue with them or even if they burn food.
For instance recently, a man in the town of Gweru in Zimbabwe bashed
his wife and threatened to stab her with a knife for refusing to teach
him how to open a Facebook account. He also demanded to know what she
was posting on her Facebook page.
Dr Tom Ondicho, a research
fellow at the Institute of Anthropology, University of Nairobi, says
that in the past domestic violence was embedded in the culture of
silence, but in recent decades, the issue has emerged as one of the most
widespread and frightening problems in the region.
In this regard, Dr Ondicho seems to differ with Pierotti that wife
beating in Kenya or elsewhere in sub-Saharan Africa has subsided.
is an underlying consensus that the incidence of wife beating has
increased substantially in the last few decades,” says Dr Ondicho in his
study on battered women in Nairobi.
there is general consensus that attitudes on wife beating in recent
times has changed as a result of disintegration of traditional
socio-cultural norms that “regulated” wife-beating.
But whereas Dr Pierotti views wife-beating in a sociological perspective, Dr Ondicho thinks this battery is motivated by a man’s urge to retain the traditional position of power and authority over women, even as modernity opens up opportunities for women folk.
whatever the factors, the situation is fast changing from a scenario in
traditional society where a man who did not beat his wife was
considered a wimp.
Dr Ondicho observes that in modern society men
might be still struggling to maintain their traditional image but a
wage economy, education, and migration have altered the equation under
which women were oppressed and ranked just a notch higher than children in the clan ranking order.
“Nevertheless, the improved status of women and the diminishing role of the extended family in resolving marital disharmony both empower women and render them vulnerable to gender violence,” says Dr Ondicho.
even under such circumstances, the general attitude about the use of
domestic violence has changed significantly among various age-groups in
Whereas in rural areas, most men and women would agree that a husband
should beat his wife if she burned food, in urban areas, the burning of
food was not sufficient to merit a beating. However, the study notes
that men and women in urban and rural areas were in agreement that married women should be beaten if they neglected children.
the change in attitudes towards rejecting wife-beating in sub-Saharan
Africa is fronted by young people and, more so, the emerging
middle-class. Dr Pierotti found that those who lived in cities and were
better educated were more likely to reject wife-beating than those who
lived in rural areas and had relatively less education.
There was also evidence that people with access to newspapers, radio
and television were more likely to reject wife-beating. “The global
spread of ideas about women’s rights and the increasing international attention to the problem of violence against women
may be contributing to the striking change in attitudes about this
issue,” says Dr Pierotti, a recipient of the Marshall Weinberg
Research Fellowship award for her incisive studies on gender
Even though violence may be decreasing in certain
pockets of society in Kenya, there is emerging evidence of increased
domestic violence against women in difficult circumstances.
Carrie Hough, a researcher with Refuge Point, an advocacy group on refugee issues, says there is increased battery of women
among refugees in Turkana County, North Eastern Province and Nairobi.
During her investigation, Hough encountered serious cases of women battery but victims seemed almost helpless.
One told her: “We have to abide by the law, culture and tradition of our community, and according to our community, women are supposed to be beaten by men from time to time.”
She identified risk factors as harmful cultural practices that tend to oppress women even when both men and women are living in difficult circumstances.
All too often, the police are very unsympathetic to battered women.
According to investigations carried out by Dr Ondicho, police officers
in most cases did not take wife-beating seriously and in many
situations, encouraged informal sanctions by persuading the two parties
to reconcile, even though wife battery is a criminal offence.
Although some women are making inroads to protect themselves from domestic violence, the road is bumpy for those in urban slums.
A study conducted by Dr Ondicho in Kibera pinpoints legal fees as a major impediment to married women who may want to press charges against their abusive husbands.
“Besides courts are often not on the side of victims as suspended
sentences and warnings are the most common forms of punishment,
resulting in repeat violations,” says Dr Ondicho.
But in spite of these circumstances, women
in Kenya and elsewhere in sub-Saharan Africa have almost cracked the
glass-ceiling of men domination wide open through ingenious legal
campaigns, education and economic empowerment.
Notably, the 1995
Universal Declaration on the Elimination of Violence against Women by
the United Nations General Assembly opened the floodgates in which women
aggressively fought against acts of gender-based violence that results
in physical, sexual and psychological harm, threats, coercion and
arbitrary deprivation of liberty.
Locally, the new Constitution is a bulwark against violence against women and children. New legislations on inheritance, basic education and governance are providing women with more freedom and basic rights than any other time in Kenya’s history.
But no matter which way one looks at it, women
have not acquired their current position on a silver platter but
through hard work. Like their counterparts in Nigeria and Ghana where
they have almost thrown out men from businesses in Lagos, Port Harcourt,
Ibadan and Accra, women traders in Nairobi are becoming increasingly influential.
In Central Province, women
are also edging men out in farming activities. These are signals that
battle for gender supremacy is not about to come to an end but is bound
to continue for a long time to come. With safeguards of international
human rights and the constitutionally-guaranteed Bill of Rights for all,
it seems new battle fronts will be opened.